Jealousy makes you nasty

Jealousy makes you nasty

 I know I'm going to poke many of you with this one but the subject of the matter is real. Usually when one is jealous of another one they often end up pretending to be a companion when deep down inside they essentially long for your blessing/s.

Now why would you count another fellows blessings and not your own. Why aren't we always authentic in our emotions, why do human beings always seek to be superior to others isn't our purpose in life to serve God  or as pertaining to what ever you believe will give you happiness. 
 
Asses your self, are you naturally an envious person, do you go about wishing your close circle bad luck because you want every one to be in the same level as you or perhaps below you, perhaps you should work harder maybe you need to use those who have achieved more or are to achieve greatness as a beacon to match up with because really, being envious just makes you nasty, when you should actually be focusing on yourself and loving yourself more.

Jealousy is clearly the fear that you do not have value it scans for evidence to prove the point - that others will be preferred and rewarded more than you and there is only one alternative "self-value".  If you cannot love yourself, you will not believe that you are loved.  You will always think it's a mistake or luck.  Take your eyes off others and turn the scanner within.  Find the seeds of your jealousy, clear the old voices and experiences.  Put all the energy into building your personal and emotional security.  Then you will be the one others envy, and you can remember the pain and reach out to them.  ~Jennifer James

Comments

Wow... This should be in a magazine article... wow... Truly, deeply and honestly this is so touchie touchie... My mom would always say Gladtjie my Child... Look @ yo fingers.. Are they equal? Id say no... Shed say as ppl we are not equal, appreciate yourself and the things u have....#never be jealous..#imma take what you said to mind aswel..

I couldn't agree with you more, thanks for this one I think I also need to start loving myself more lol

@Gladys your mom is a wise woman and thanks for that :) @rich all the best with that yeah

U took words frm me dear,I cudnt hav said it beta u totaly blew me away wit dis. It rily is an eye opener en great word of advice! Much respect bro...